The point of proclaiming the Gospel isn’t to bring people to the Jesus who loves them or so they can “be happy and fulfilled”. The Gospel of Jesus Christ does not exist to make your life better, nor does is it fit to be sold in such a way that makes it seem like it’s doing you a favor or filling some need in your life. The reason that we share the Gospel with the damned is to share with them their place before the King of Kings, who created the universe and has appointed a day in which He will judge mankind. Our job, as those who are called out and saved by His hand and by His grace, is to go to the mountain top and proclaim that EVERYONE is damned before God, and that NO ONE can get there on their own merit. It is by fully surrendering yourself to Jesus Christ alone that you are saved. When you do that, you are no longer your own person. Your “born again” experience releases you from the responsibility of your life because you are now a slave to the God who purchased you with His blood. No longer is it “your time”, but His. No longer are they “your finances”, but His. No longer are they “your desires”, but His. Perseverance is not your goal, but your battle cry. Sacrifice is not something you do, but something you ARE. Your life and everything you are now belongs to Jesus Christ. If you are not willing to submit to His ultimate authority in your life then you are not going to be saved when He comes in judgment against the nations. Jesus did not live the perfect life that neither you or I could ever live, then suffer physically and spiritually the full weight of an eternity of eternities of punishment so you can be pleased with yourself. He did this to purchase you from God the Father and to set you apart for His purposes here on Earth. If you reject this salvation that He provides, you will be left to fend for yourself on the day of judgment. What can you bring to the creator of the universe to justify yourself when you sin against Him? What can you do that will repay Him for your life of self indulgence and unwillingness to honor Him even in your thought life? Who are you to stand before the God of all creation and even attempt to speak in your own defense?